On babies and relationships

So timely.

Saw a post about how a hubs felt neglected after a baby! But thats a newborn so that hubs is really ?!?!?! Hello, your wife just pushed this little person outta herself. This little person her whole physical body was protecting and creating for 9 months. At this stage when the baby is soooo vulnerable... do you really expect her to give you the same amount of attention as before? How...? Seriously. And if you have time to worry about this... why don't you help out with the baby more man?!?

But anw thats newborn stage ya... now that #dcyw is a little older... not exactly independent (lol) but not that needy tiny infant anymore... maybe we needa have some couple time? Hmmm. Not sure.

Anyway, reminded I need to show Xr some TLC cuz he's sick. ))): The rock and pillar is sick? Omg so poor thing. Hopefully he will really rest today. But doubtful because he will prolly use comp. #hugesigh

I'm guessing xr's body is just reacting to the underlying worry and rushing around the hosps. I hope I'm not giving him additional stress man. At least it's the weekend tomorrow. Hopefully... more sleep for everyone!!

At this point, so thankful for all the help from family members. Wished my parents were strong enough that I could leave #dcyw with them for a few hours. But I'm really worried about him wearing them out. Esp if they are outside. We will see I guess. Maybe when he can verbalise his needs a little better?

Anyway, at least #dcyw is trying to make new sounds. Pleased mama is pleased. Be a good boy this weekend ok. Let mama have a relatively easy time with you so she doesn't need help from papa and papa can rest!